That sounds almost exactly what is happening, I did set the preload on the stronger side rather than the lighter side. So I have a few mechanical things working against me.
However I think I am also having something interfere with closed loop control that I have yet to identify.
I have not really been game enough to do a lot of testing due to how far it spikes but the way I would describe it is that you can really hear the wastegate shut at 4000rpm.
If I was in closed loop and requesting 10psi, doing a long 4th gear pull it would get a stable 10psi until 4000, then instantly it makes a very noticeable change in turbo sound, id say the gate closes somewhat and it winds up much harder and I get off the throttle as soon as I hear it. Perhaps that is what you are describing at that sweet spot and it just starts making a lot more boost.
I have tried to zero out auF0326 and auF0318 in case that was doing anything but this made no change.
I need to do more testing, but I dont believe it was doing this in open loop, only closed. It behaves just fine in open loop except for the constant WG Solenoid pulsing thing.
After I got back home from an open loop test, I noticed that the WG Solenoid was just constantly pulsing when I turned the car off and again when I tried to turn the car on about half an hour later. I put the previous tune back on that didnt force open loop and the pulsing went away. I was going to try and figure out what that was before I did more testing, but I was able to get a pretty stable boost curve on open loop without this giant 4krpm spike (at least I think I was).
I just need to iron out that pulsing thing and I can happily run it in open loop to do some more confirmed testing.
I dont get a heap of time to work on the car and dont have a lot of roads to test on that are suitable so things take a little while for me to test with any consistency.